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No Regret

Humanities & CultureLiterature

11 months ago

Chapter 3

"...and in Jesus' name we pray. Amen," said Reverend Kelley.  He signaled for the casket to be lowered into the grave.

I tried to hold back the tear at my eye and wiped my nose with my sleeve.  My father put his arm over my shoulder and we walked away in silence.  My mother and Scooter followed.

"There's a reception at the Ravenhardt's house if you'd like to attend," said Molly's cousin Noel Carver as she approached. "There'll be plenty of food."

"Thank you, Noel. We'll stop by for a few minutes," said my father.

"Jack and Holly will appreciate it."

"Sure thing."

We walked up to our family car, the rusty brown Impala.

"Why don't you hop up front Lucius? You don't mind do you Lizzie?"

My mother shot my father a dirty look for calling her ‘Lizzie.' "Yes that's fine."

We drove in silence for about ten minutes before my father spoke.
"You never know when you're time's going to be up do you Lucius?"

"No, I suppose not."
"One day when you're not looking, wham! It sneaks up on you.  Lucius, I want you to do something for me."

I looked over at him wondering what it could be.
"What's that?"

"Live your life for today.  Enjoy what you have in each moment 'cause you never know when the moment's going to be over."

He glanced over at my mother in the back seat.

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A Friend Died Today - Coping With Loss, Grief and Fear Of Your My Mortality

LifestyleLove & Relationships

13 months ago

A Friend Died Today - 5 Ways To Cope With Loss, Grief and the Fear Of Your Own Mortality
  - Jonathan Lockwood Huie


As I write this, the house is quiet. My wife and her good friend are attending a funeral. Their long-time mutual friend and fellow artist, who I never met, died suddenly at 62, leaving a husband in chronic ill health.

I first became aware that death - for anyone - is never far away when a sixth grade playground chum committed suicide. I had been aware that old people died - but "old" had seemed very remote to my twelve year old self. Instantly death became very real - something that could, and did, happen to anyone.

Having reached my sixties, death is becoming a more and more familiar companion - it is no longer something that happens to grandparents or parents - it is now something that often happens to peers. A surprising number of my friends have also lost children to various calamities.

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The Jewish People vs Their Enemies: Quelle Difference.

Humanities & CultureSpirituality and Faith

2 months ago

I've been devastated since reading about the murder of Rav Meir Chai, father of seven and a teacher of school children and kindergartners, who was gunned down while driving on Route 57 in the Shomron.* Rav Meir (a"h) was a humble, learned man, and was cherished by his students.

That scum like his murderers should continue to exist at all is a travesty.

Then I read on The Muqata that his orphan son Eliyahu delivered a moving hesped* for his slain father at his funeral, which hundreds attended. The son spoke about continuing the lessons of his father. He especially (can you imagine for yourself how difficult this was for him to do?) emphasized that his father was leaving-
a message of faith, Jewish pride, religious observance, and “no revenge.”
Did you get that? Well then, let me repeat it for you: "A Message of Faith, Jewish Pride, Religious Observance, and 'No Revenge.'"

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