Lifestyle - Love & Relationships

Its long time since I really wrote something for bloggersbase and I do believe that this is the time to write.Well how often do we realize in our life that we have lived our life for ourself.Do we really follow the rules in our life?.We very well know the concept of life and we have determined our role as a parent,child,lover and friend etc. But apart from these we have our role as an individual.Its very late when we realize that we fail to live for ourself.We have pampered our souls and heart very much that when time comes we hardly recognize it.We should recognize that we have a role and an important part.

Jennifer Aniston has been stirring up debate about whether or not a woman needs a man when she decides she wants to have a baby.  In her new movie, The Switch, she plays a woman turning 40 who decides to have a baby "without a man" by visiting a sperm bank.  In a recent article from Yahoo she is quoted as saying "Women are realizing more and more that you don't have to settle, they don't have to fiddle with a man to have that child."

First of all, whether there is "fiddling" or not, a man is necessary for creating a baby.  More importantly, this notion is an insult to loving  fathers everywhere, and it marginalizes the importance of their role in child rearing.  Here are some of the strange notions being cited to advocate this idea that a woman doesn't need a man when she wants to have a child, along with my opinions of why each notion is flawed.

Many Women Can Afford To Raise Kids on Their Own-

I've written many times about the many ways that marriage has gotten a bad reputation.  Whether it's stories about celebrities caught in cheating scandals, or watching the couples around them filing for divorce, many people are questioning just how desirable it is to be married.  So forget about the bleak statistics for modern day marriage, today's post will strictly take a light examine several of the negative terms that are used to describe various aspects of  marriage.

Wedlock- Maybe it's because it sounds so similar to headlock or maybe it's just the inclusion of the word "lock" that makes this term sound so unappealing.  Either way, it sounds likes something that is meant to trap you against your will, and does not conjure up happy images.

Tying the Knot- I've read varying accounts of how this expression came to refer to marriage and most have to do with stories about wedding ceremonies where the bride and groom would be tied together to symbolize being "bound together."  Most people don't relish in the idea of marriage being the equivalent of a physical restriction.  When people talk about "being tied down" by marriage, it is certainly not meant to express their happiness with marriage.

"How was their love,  free, unusual, incomparable! They thought like others would have sung. If they loved each other, it wasn't out of necessity, of succumbing to the flame of passion, according to a false image. If they loved each other, it was because around them, everything wants it that way: the earth beneath their feet, the sky above their heads, the clouds, the trees. Their love suited  their closed friends perhaps even more than  themselves;  the strangers in the street,  those who would move aside in front of them when they walked,  the rooms where they lived and met"

Boris Pasternak, Doctor Zhivago.

This may be a strange definition of love. But when you think about it, it can make sense. Some couples appear as obvious to their entourage. Even before they actually got together. Among my acquaintances, there were two of a kind who had to be together. Everyone was convinced they could make a great couple long before they started dating for real. And now, we can't see them without each other. It's like they were meant to be.

When so many people are convinced you could make a great match, they can't be wrong, can they? Of course, if this is only based on how good looks your couple, it's silly. It's not because both of you are beautiful that you would make a good match. You can have very opposite characters and fight all of the time. You can have nothing in common.

These categories are in our subconscious and don’t necessarily have official names to each one. At the same time each guy will have their own set of unique categories when it comes to women their willing to bone. Next, I’ll give you a run down of some of them.

The occasional hook-up–This chick is one that we have a good relationship with and for some reason always end up hooking up. We’re not in love with her or intend to ever be in a relationship with. Sometimes they live far away or just our schedules can’t seem to match and open the possibilities of taking it to the next level. We don’t really seek each other but if we’re in the same room we’ll end up getting it on, for sure. This chick is generally of average to good looks.

The booty call–