Humanities & Culture
PhilosophyBy wealth
8 months ago
The last of the 4 Pillars of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is Behavior Flexibility or as I like to call it Change for Success. This basis of this pillar of NLP is that we have the power to change our behavior. Like the old saying goes: Do the same thing and you will get the same results. After looking at NLP we understand that we all have habits and beliefs that we may not even realize that we have and that they can, and often do control things that we do. NLP has a variety of methods and tools to help us discover and change for success, the habits and beliefs, and ultimately our behavior so that we can experience success or the desired outcome.  Change For Success - Means Different Results We talked about making better use of our 5 senses as one of the other pillars of NLP and how we can build rapport as the first pillar of NLP. When we use our 5 senses fully, we can understand and build better rapport with ourselves and others which combined with Outcome Thinking will ultimately be a change for success when we modify our behavior. When you change your behavior, you will change your results. If the results or outcome are not the desired outcome then we will change our behavior again and again until we experience the desired outcome. Change for success will result in your goals achieved. |
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Lifestyle
Love & RelationshipsBy Jonathan
13 months ago
A Friend Died Today - 5 Ways To Cope With Loss, Grief and the Fear Of Your Own Mortality
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
As I write this, the house is quiet. My wife and her good friend are attending a funeral. Their long-time mutual friend and fellow artist, who I never met, died suddenly at 62, leaving a husband in chronic ill health.
I first became aware that death - for anyone - is never far away when a sixth grade playground chum committed suicide. I had been aware that old people died - but "old" had seemed very remote to my twelve year old self. Instantly death became very real - something that could, and did, happen to anyone.
Having reached my sixties, death is becoming a more and more familiar companion - it is no longer something that happens to grandparents or parents - it is now something that often happens to peers. A surprising number of my friends have also lost children to various calamities.
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