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The the Despised & Rejected

Humanities & CultureSpirituality and Faith

4 weeks ago

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This talk was given by a young female engineer and mission worker in Myanmar (Burma). In Myanmar orphans have little respect from others, and do not have the opportunity of others. Donations are often made first to a Buddha shrine and monks and last to the poor. In addition Myanmar authorities limit how much money foreigners can donate to an orphanage, and all occurs in a suspicious environment where every foreigner may be regarded as a spy. 
 

Despised & Rejected

I gave this talk to the older orphanage children after becoming aware of how the orphanage children felt they were treated by others in the local community.

 

The talk began with reference to a favourite childhood book about an orphan who overcomes trial, and unattractive features due to a positive character.

 

The Bible speaks about two important people who overcome prejudice and people despising them.

 

The first one was Joseph (Genesis 17). He was one of 12 children born to 4 different mothers. His mother died when his younger brother Benjamin was born. His brothers hated him and when he was 17 years old they sold him into slavery to the Midianites. The Midianites sold him to Potipher, the captain of Pharaoh's officers in Egypt. About 10 years later Joseph was put into prison for something he did not do, where he stayed until he interpreted Pharaoh's dream who then promoted him to be a ruler over all Egypt. He was 30 years old.

 

The second example from the Bible is Jesus Christ. The Bible tells us that he was despised and rejected. He had no beauty and was familiar with suffering and sorrow (Is 53). People thought that he was illegitimate. One of his 12 disciples Judah betrayed him to death. At his trial for crucifixion his friends deserted and denied him. But God raised him from the dead and he now sits at God's right hand as a King - the King of the earth.

 

The life picture we see of Joseph and Christ is not unique in the Bible. It appears in almost every Bible life. Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebekah, Jacob, Joseph, Moses, Hannah and Samuel, Ruth and Naomi, David, the prophets, Christ, the 12 disciples and Paul.

In Hebrews chapter 11:33-40 there is  a description of the lives of the faithful; some were tortured, jeered at, flogged, chained and put in prison, stoned, sawed in two, destitute, persecuted and mistreated. They did this to obtain a better resurrection and were commended for their faith and they now wait in sleep so that they can be made perfect with us.
 

So why is there suffering in our lives? The Bible gives us many answers:

1. Presence of sin

2. To develop our character. In life you never see anyone do great things unless they have experienced hard things and worked to overcome them.

Isaiah 66:2 God esteems the person that is humble and contrite in spirit and trembles at His word.

James 2:5 God has chosen those that are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the Kingdom.

1 Corinthians 1:28 God has chosen the lowly things of the world and despised things

Matthew 5 The poor in spirit and meek will inherit the Kingdom

 

3. To show the powerful hand of God by miracles. If everything was easy we would not need God or recognise that it was God doing it.

John 9:3 Jesus was asked why a man was born blind. Jesus replies that it was because the work of God was to be displayed.

Luke 1:37 Elizabeth, old and barren, became the mother of John the Baptist because with God nothing is impossible.see Impossibilty and God

 When people look down at you, when you suffer as a Christian, have confidence in God.

I encourage you to choose a Bible character that you can relate to and make them your inspiration. They would not look down at you, but encourage you to continue in Christ, waiting for his second coming to earth. When he does come there will be no more tears of sorrow, instead there will be mercy, justice and righteousness.

Those in the Kingdom of God will not be there because they are rich, famous or important. It is those who have suffered and been persecuted for God. In Revelation 21;1-4 we see a picture of God's Kingdom. We see Jerusalem coming down from heaven, and God then dwelling with people and wiping away tears from their eyes. There is no more sorrow or death. The old way that we know now will pass away. Rev 5:10 says that we will reign as kings and priests on earth. The eyes of the blind will be opened, the ears of the deaf will hear, the lame will leap, water will be in the desert (Is 35:5-10). The redeemed of God will enter Zion with gladness and joy. Sorrow and sighing will flee away.
 

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Today’s Weird Experience

EntertainmentHumor

3 months ago

Before you read any further, be warned that this is about a once in a life time, or two event. I know that sounds dramatic, but it is dramatic, traumatic and involves antiseptic.

Scene set.

 

I had a long arranged appointment today with my dermatologist today. On my last visit in October, he had noticed three suspicious looking little brown spots that he insisted needed  surgically removing. Not that it matters to you, but they were on my inner forearm, thigh and neck. Yes, nice tender zones for his scalpel. However this is not the topic of this tale. During my visit in October, I had pleaded with him on my wife’s behalf for an appointment for her. His receptionist had told me he was totally booked out and was not taking any new patients. 

 

When I discussed this with him, he confirmed that indeed he was not taking any new patients. Full stop. Sorry, but no. Until we drifted onto the topic of music as one does in a doctor’s surgery. To cut this story short, he agreed to take my wife for an appointment in January 2010, if I supplied him with one of my CDs. Well, deal done!

 

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If You Can Read … And You’re Reading This, You’re Lucky

Humanities & CulturePeople

5 months ago

By Manuel Carrillo III

It’s 2009. Pluto isn’t a planet any longer. The President of the United States is black. We’ve made it to the “future”. OK, so the flying car is still 15 years away, but the prototypes are testing well.

If we’re at least living in the beginning of the future, then why is there still so much injustice in this world? Why is most of the world destitute and struggling to survive? It comes down to where our attention is being paid.

I don’t think enough attention is being paid to those less fortunate. I don’t think privileged Western society is doing enough to help people in less-developed countries. Western society does a lot, but relative to the entire predicament, it hardly puts a door ding in a dilemma that needs a severe dent. To put a huge gash in the crisis, individuals need to step up to the plate and take stock in what they can do to help. But before all that, awareness needs to be increased.

My increased awareness came while I was watching The Late Show with David Letterman Tuesday night. Letterman’s guest was former President Bill Clinton, who appeared on the late-night show to promote his Clinton Global Initiative - a public service organization committed to addressing the disparity of the worldwide experience, i.e. world hunger and issues with human life sustainability in less-developed countries.

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Pain is inevitable, Suffering is optional. - Buddhist proverb

Humanities & CultureQuotes and Insights

5 months ago


Pain is inevitable, Suffering is optional.
- Buddhist proverb

Pain is what the world inflicts upon us. Suffering is our emotional reaction when we fail to make the difficult conscious decision to choose Joy.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Nobody can hurt me without my permission.
- Mahatma Gandhi

Gandhi's observation is fundamental to walking the path of a joyful life, but do understand that by "hurt" Gandhi means emotional suffering rather than physical pain.

Think of the playground rhyme, "Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me." In real life, most of us often feel very hurt by the words of others, but we can choose to moderate those feelings of perceived injury.

*** Book of the day: Heal Your Life Now: The Alchemy of Forgiveness (eBook)
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I have no need to conform to the stereotypes others have defined for me. - Jonat

Humanities & CultureQuotes and Insights

6 months ago


I have no need to conform to the stereotypes others have defined for me.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

I received a couple of comments describing yesterday's message as "disgusting," and "offensive." I apologize if anyone felt offended, it was certainly not my intention to insult anyone or to suggest that life is less than difficult for anyone.

The issue with my message, as one writer put it... "In this day and age, women are 'expected' to work outside the home as well as care for the children, husband and home....get the meals, do the laundry, etc. Perhaps they are incredibly tired, find little time for them to get back to a peaceful state of mind as they are expected to carry so many loads."

I agree. Those are the generally accepted expectations of American society.

But what next?

One choice is to suffer, the other choice is to seek joy.
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The path of the adventurer is a path of joy - jlh

Humanities & CultureQuotes and Insights

6 months ago


Adventurer

Fly Life on Free Wings, and Sing to its Glory.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
– Helen Keller

The most painful and debilitating fear is fear of the unknown.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

We fear the unknown, perhaps more than we fear anything else, and yet we are, at heart, adventurers. We seek to expand our realm of knowledge and dominion. Perhaps we are attempting to overcome and crush the unknown, but our duel with the unknown is such a one-sided clash that we must know in our hearts that our adventure is no more than a child's game. Perhaps we hope that the unknown is like the darkness of a cave and that the brief light of our adventurer's candle can illuminate the entire cave. Nonetheless, the path of the adventurer is a path of joy, while the way of fear is one of suffering.
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Rejection and Desire

Humanities & CulturePhilosophy

9 months ago

We usually think that suffering is caused by bad experiences, but it’s actually caused by our attention flowing towards something that’s not really there—towards something that’s not very true in that moment, such as an idea or a fantasy, which are very small truths. Suffering ends when our attention is flowing towards what’s actually happening, what’s true in the moment. Suffering is the distance—the gap—between what you’re oriented towards and what is. However large the gap is between what’s actually happening and what you’re putting your attention on is how much you will suffer. If there’s no gap, then there’s no suffering.

 

That gap can be present regardless of whether something good or bad is happening. For example, if someone close to you is dying, your awareness may be so fully focused on what’s happening in that moment that the experience lacks the suffering you would expect, although suffering may appear later if thoughts creep in about how things should have or could have been. In contrast, there are times when things are going really well and you’re suffering, often because you’re afraid of things changing. If this truth is understood—that it doesn’t matter what happens—it can change your life. It may or may not change what’s happening, but it will change your experience of what’s happening.

 

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