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Prayer, Meditation, and Silence

CounselingSelf Management

2 months ago

The holidays are almost over. This week between Christmas and New Year’s is usually one of the happiest—the stress of preparing for Christmas is past. We are still enjoying the warmth of the holidays, parties, family visits, new gifts. But soon it will be January—a relatively quiet, uneventful month.

 

We may not have had much quiet in our lives recently. Now is the time to catch up on the quiet.

 

Prayer is important, but sometimes we mistake prayer with asking God to give us what we need. We pray about what is wrong and ask for it to be fixed. We get so caught up in the worry of our prayers that we forget to quiet our minds. We forget to seek quiet, silence, and just to listen.

 

In my last post I talked about Joseph as the silent partner of the Holy Family. He doesn’t strike me as a worrier. He saw what needed to be done and he did it. We can do the same by not worrying and just trusting that when we need to act we will know what to do.

 

We make it easier to know when we listen.

 

Today, spend a few minutes listening. Sit quietly. Be comfortable. Close your eyes and breathe deeply. Let your thoughts go. Don’t try to think. If thoughts enter your mind, tell your mind to hush. Let the thoughts go.

 

Imagine yourself waiting, in a quiet room, on a park bench, in a peaceful meadow. Waiting for God, for your Source, for your Higher Power, your Inner Knowing to speak.

 

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3 easy steps to maximize your time online

World AffairsBusiness & Finance

3 months ago

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The once cavernous line between work and recreation on the computer has been narrowed significantly over the past few years. How you manage it can maximize your productivity.

You have a wealth of business tools on the computer you are using to read this message. However, there's a universe of distraction just a click away from that Excel spreadsheet you're supposed to be slogging through or research that needs to be done.

Digital mobility has spawned an army of corporate work-from-homers, independent consultants, or small business entrepeneurs - all powered with the tools and flexibility needed to perform. The distractions of the internet combined without the 'fear of Mr. Bossman' certainly cut into everyone's productivity and we know the social media salad bar is open 24 hours a day for anyone who wants it, so how do you stay focused?

1. Stay on Task

How do you avoid the siren's call of YouTube or Farmville when you're out in the field (hopefully not a meeting) or your awesome Nintendo Wii waiting for you in the next room?

It's safe to say that some discipline is required to maintain the business that needs to be done. I use GTD tools and a basic calendar to keep me on task no matter where I work.

I use Things (Mac) to keep me tasked with scheduled reminders for project based daily work. Here are some other good GTD applications.

2. Social Calendar

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ROI? Social media is a business dinner

World AffairsBusiness & Finance

3 months ago

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Jason Falls wrote a powerful piece about the 'bottom line' approach that a client obviously wants to have using social media or any other marketing effort.

In a nutshell, he argues that:

"In the world of business, all that talk will get you exactly nowhere. Conversations do not ring the cash register. Engagement does not sell more product."
While his statements are absolutely valid we need to be sure that we don't throw out what drives social media in our pursuit of the almighty revenue. Can you make a sale without communicating to someone? It's not easy. Humans haven't changed much despite our ubercool techno tools. We want our creature comforts and most of those involve other people.

Why do the masses participate in social media? The large majority are Twittering and Facebook status freaks as a means of participating in discussion and interacting with their fellow beast. A statement I sometimes use in my presentations: 'humans doing what they do best.'

The reality is that social media business efforts must snap-in to the engine that makes the platform run in order to work with the human touchy-feely side of communication. The alternative smells like 'banner advertising' and thats certainly not going to work.

Let's do dinner!

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The Great Left-brained ROI Mistake

World AffairsBusiness & Finance

4 months ago

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If you think the word 'branding' is a bad word, especially with respect to ROI for social media, then it might be time to do some more research. 

I've had several conversations with marketing managers in the last few months who only focus on one specific thing, that being the bottom line of a marketing 'campaign.' Many won't allow the notion of branding into their strategy mainly due to "the economy" and "who can measure a brand anyway?"

This type of thinking is archaic, especially with respect to the fundamental reasons why people make buying decisions to begin with. We have all the data in the world at our fingertips and yet far too often we allow analytical people and their tunnel vision processes to manage the lifeblood of our businesses. 

Marketing works

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The Zhu Zhu flu pandemic

World AffairsBusiness & Finance

4 months ago

A new pandemic
I've caught Zhu Zhu fever! Yes, in the era of swine flu I have found myself stricken with another malady named after a beast. This time it's a supercute hamster and it's got me all in a twist.

I originally heard about this pet toy a few months back and thought nothing of it, but lately I just can't seem to go anywhere without someone talking about how much they want a Zhu Zhu. From Tickle Me Elmo to department store trampling deaths I'd say this one's gonna be white hot come Christmas time. All the stars are aligning, especially when you consider the low-supply/high-demand commentary online and attractive recession-era price point.

Get prepared, because if you haven't already been overwhelmed with requests from your kids you'll probably begin to feel a primal urge throwing you into a frenzy and next thing you know you'll be burning the midnight oil just to get your hands on one of these creatures. I know I did.

As we've observed from many of our consumer trend cycles, this one's gonna be quick and dirty and before you know it you might see them going for $50 bucks a piece on eBay. Let's hope so. I just want to be a fly on the wall for the whole thing.

Social shopping?
This holiday season will see us continue to break new ground in the social internet. This article explains the phenomenon far better than I could.

One area it doesn't explore is the idea of group purchasing. The concept essentially involves a connected, coordinated crowd all with the same buying intentions. They get together and make a bulk purchase of, say, a refrigerator, and realize the (efficiency of scale) savings from doing so. That's an idea that could catch fire with the technology we have at our fingertips and the as the saying goes 'a recession is the mother of invention'... well, close enough.

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Blog Honesty - Are You Guilty of Self Censorship

CounselingSelf Management

5 months ago

In it's infancy blogging was nothing more than a weblog, an online journal, of an individual or group's daily, weekly, or occasional activities. Weblogs gave families, friends and other associates a means of "keeping up" with one another online.

Blogs have evolved into a method of communication being utilized by everyone from CEOs to school age internet gurus. Some blog for fame; others for fortune and most importantly many blog as a means of self expression. As hi-tech as blogging has become, it's still all about conversation and opinion. So why then should blog honesty and making sure you're not guilty of losing it ever be an issue.

Perhaps certain bloggers get lost in the need to be more popular than be themselves. I don't mean misrepresent a product or other information available on their personal blog. I'm referring to self-censorship...and without utilizing wikipedia or google to define that...I'll take a stab at it myself.
Self-censorship is the act of not being completely forthcoming about your personal feelings regarding a topic in fear that what you say or how you say it might be taken the wrong way or be viewed as down right offensive by some.
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A Bad Case Of Blog Envy/Jealousy

TechnologyInternet

5 months ago

I recently received an anonymous email that accused me of having a bad case of blog envy. It seems that they think that I must be very bitter that I don't have more readers and that the brands haven't bequeathed their bounty upon me.

It was kind of fun to read. Been a while since I got anything that resembled hate mail at least something that didn't go off onto some antisemitic or anti-Israel rant. One of my favorites was the email that went on about Palin the Prophet. I responded to them that they mean to write Profit, but I never did hear back from them. Darn.

Anyway, back to my new friend the anonymous emailer. In my younger years I would have shared your email with all 17 of the longtime readers and the few stragglers that come along for the ride. But the kinder, gentler, er, dumber Jack accidentally deleted it and emptied the trash so we'll have to do without for now.

Here is my response to your comments. I don't spend any time courting the brands. I don't pitch PR agencies about my blog. Don't spend any time talking to them about how influential my blog is. And I don't lose any sleep over that.
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